Insecurities

I laugh at the fact that people think I'm insecure about myself...
I live for the fact that they get life for attempting to make me insecure about myself.... 
But i pity the person who believes that they're that much of a factor to invoke any other emotion but laughter... 
It warms my heart that I'm that important to some people....
Insecurities lacking of self-confidence, plagued by anxiety....
Everyone has them...
No ones perfect....
I hate my feet...
I hate that my thighs are so thick....
I don't think that I'm that attractive...
I have abandonment issues...
But I own up to my insecurities....
They all have their advantages...
I can swim well...
My thighs attract a lot of positive attention...
People think I'm attractive...
I value every relationship and learn from past mistakes...
Why wallow in self pity?
Why use our insecurities as reason why?
Why allow others pointing out what you obviously know affect you? 
Instead dissect the reason why they point them out... 
You have something they want...
You have a certain je ne sais quoi...
A certain savor faire....
A security in your insecurities.....
And that in fact is a weapon...
A power that can't be taken from you, unless you allow it....
Confidence is key...
Being overly confident sparks fear or panic...
Resulting in people who lack a confidence to lash out....
So my question is are you confident in yourself?